Have you ever been in crisis mode and spoken to more than one psychic about the same issue only to get conflicting information?  Believe me when I say that I’ve seen this happen time and time again.  When people ask me why this happens, I say, “Don’t give up your power to a psychic...or anyone else!”  That’s not to say that going to a psychic is a bad thing...it’s actually good.  When you speak with an ethical psychic, their intention is always to provide you with the best possible service and advice by bringing information to the fore that is meant for your highest good at the time.  Most seasoned and ethical psychics have earned great wisdom with natural or cultivated intuition mixed in.  We see, hear, and feel you as well as your Spirit connection.  However, predictions can be tricky.  That’s not to say that we cannot predict outcomes, but relying on these predictions and basing your future decisions on that prediction is not a smart thing to do.  

You are responsible for your thoughts, actions, and deeds.  Most trajectories can change and you need to understand that your thoughts, words, and decisions can change the direction in your life.  So, if a psychic predicts an outcome, it is wise to take it with a grain of salt because the prediction is based on the energy, as it stood, in the moment you asked the question.  There are so many factors to consider when you ask for a prediction.  Other free-willed people, for instance.  If you are asking about a relationship and whether or not he or she is coming back, the psychic may see him/her coming back to you but this may be because that’s your intention as well as the other person’s intention at the time.  That free-willed person can change their mind.  Perhaps they get cold feet and choose to postpone that decision and then, all of a sudden, another person enters their life that they fall in love with.  You never know.

Most of the time, a psychic sees what’s going on in that moment.  For example, one of my clients and I were talking and all of a sudden I asked her, “are you pregnant?”  She didn’t know but found out she was a week later.  The operative word was “are”.  I could see that she was but she didn’t know it at the time.

I can tell if you are having difficulties in your relationship but I cannot predict how it will end up, usually.  But I can see alternatives and whether or not that person is good for you.  

You can ask me questions about your finances and I can see options, but I can’t usually tell you if you will win the lottery or not.  Get the picture?

Another factor that can make or break a prediction is how close in time it’s supposed to happen.  

I did see a colleague of mine getting assaulted, near her car, in the nighttime with bruises on her body once and told her about it. I told her to be careful and described what I was seeing.  The assault happened 2 nights later.  She was OK and remembered the prediction just prior to it happening so she was able to get away.  Things like this just happen and people don’t usually ask if they will get assaulted within 3 days.

I mention all this to say that psychics are people too.  We are not God and we don’t do mind control.  We just have a connection to spirit and we are the conduits of information you are supposed to receive at the time of your session.  It is not the psychic’s job to tell you what to do but it is our job to help you on your path to success in every area of your life.  Never give your power away to a psychic and if you speak to one who wants you to keep coming back to them in order for you to make a decision, then you are giving over your power to create your own life. 

Wishing you love and light,

Lori